Thursday, December 25, 2008

Merry Christmas & Seasons Greetings


May you and your family have great new year ahead.  In spite challenging time ahead, may family ties continue to be strong, may you find happiness

in the little things in life.

Have a happy and Blessed & Happy New Year 2009


One of the illusions of life is that the present hour is not the critical, decisive hour. Write it on your heart that every day is the best day of the year.

~Ralph Waldo Emerson~


K V Soon, Chong Wai Leng

Amrita, Samanta & Arian Soon

December 2008


Monday, December 22, 2008

Happy Dongzhi!

Winter Solstice (image credit:http://www.wildhunt.org/)

Today is dongzhi or winter solstice. The Chinese in ancient times found out that the Winter Solstice was the shortest day in a year, after which the sun begins its slow return to the North. It is also significant because it also means that the lunar Chinese new year will only be one month and a half away from the Winter Solstice. To most Chinese, Winter Solstice meant a happy family get-together. Some would put on their best clothes, visit friends and celebrate it late into the longest night. Food plays an important part in the festivities. The most common is tong yuan I was also surprise to have heard fire-crackers exploding this morning! Some people are definitely takes this celebration seriously!

Tong YAN. (image credit: http://yungyaw.net/)

I had good celebration in Seremban - with lots to eat (a little too much though). It was good to see families coming together. Of course, we had tongyan. Being Chinese, we should take opportunities for families to come together and enjoy! Good excuse to strengthen family ties.

Happy Dongzhi!

Saturday, December 20, 2008

Let the schools decide?


Let the schools decide? I must say this is an interesting idea. I do agree we need to at some point in time, we probably need to let the schools decide. We cannot do that now. Schools are structured to be extensions of the Ministry of Education (MOE), which is a part of the Cabinet - not separated from the political parties that rules us. Teachers are government employees. Headmasters are government employees and the same goes for all staff in the schools. The reporting line (some might want to refer to this as "chain of command") goes right up to the Prime Minister. The Ministry dictates all major policies from curriculum to texts. Schools cannot invite ex-students /head prefect back to function without running into the wrath of the MOE. Schools need to be set free! With this situation, how can you expect the schools to decide. Unless schools break free from the whims and fancies of political lords, little can be expected.

This can truly be happen when parents themselves are empowered and be come and active partner and stake-holder in the education process. The PTA (Parents'-Teachers-Association) needs to be revamped to give it powers in schools- not just being concerned about fund raising and dialogue with the teachers. Having said that, parents need to be awaken and exercised their rights. Not just leave it to the schools. Parents (and teachers) needs to move away from the once a terms parent-meet-teachers sessions or whenever there are problems with the students. Schools cannot shutout the parents and operate in a vacuum anymore. If schools are to decided on important topics such the teaching of maths and science in English.

When parents truly get involved, only then when change will take place. We will then learn that the "one-size-fits-all" approach to learning and teaching will not apply. The longer we wait for the system to change, more generations of our youths will be left out.


Thursday, December 18, 2008

Time to liberalize education?


Came across this comment by Yeo Yang Poh entitled "The disaster of forced assimilation" (The SUN Dec 17, 2009). Felt it was interesting read and an affirmation as well as appreciation of cultural diversity. Taking it a step further, schools should move away for these "forced assimilation" as well.  As we look towards the future, we should think about liberalizing our education system. Some may say to democratize it - from central control, aka Ministry of Education, driven political policies.  For too long, we have been brought up with the notion that if we all speak ONE same language, think the ONE same way and do the things the same way, we will be an integrated (whatever that means), peaceful and harmonious society.  This has to stop because this is not the real world. Using schools to social engineer for the sake of control and power is against human rights.  Schools today are so rigid and almost no choices are available, we don't even have the right to choose our education systems. With the exception of language and (probably culture) everything is the same, remember:
Article 26.3 of the Universal Declaration of Human Rights states that "Parents have a prior right to choose the kind of education that shall be given to their children."

Take a leaf from our neighbours, Indonesia. They move from a very mono-cultural environement (when eg, Chinese did not even use their own Chinese names) to the introduction of an Anti-Discrimination Bill in Nov 2008 when the Indonesian House of Representatives unanimouslypassed a bill that terms ethnic and racial discrimination as serious crimes.

We should all stand up and appreciate the diversity we are.  Let's start with the our kids and the schools our kids go to.



(picture source http://www.mediabistro.com)




Wednesday, December 17, 2008

English it is...........IT IS TIME TO MOVE ON!


Finally, English it is! It is time to put away political differences, and move forward.

It is time to stop the demonstration and move to take care of our children's future. Take care of them and never subject them to unnecessary pressure, beating or any action that brings down their self esteem and morale. It is NOT the time to dwell and live in the past!

It is time to look after each child and give them all the opportunity to succeed in life - not just about examinations and A-results!

It is time for parents to not follow the Ali's, Ah Chong's and Siva's and to compare with each other. It is time to follow your heart to listen to our children and to recognize the each one of them is a genius. It time to ask "how my kid is smart"not "how smart are my kids"!

It is time to also take care of the teachers that are entrusted to educate our child. Give them the due recognition and compensation which commensurate with their responsibilities. It is time to bring the level of this profession to be a noble vocation!

It is time to open our minds to a globalized and borderless world of limitless information exchange and availability. It is time we appreciate that world in changing and cultures evolving. There is no time to dwell in the past!

IT IS TIME WE WORK FOR THE FUTURE, THE FUTURE OF OUR CHILDREN.


before we will run out of time



Tuesday, December 16, 2008

Time to JERIT (Scream) out OUT LOUD!

It is time to scream! Scream really loud! The police ain't going to help you. They are too busy, the CPO Selangor has got better things to do than to fight crime - putting under-aged cyclist in lock-up.

For the past 2 weeks (if you have not known by now) groups of cyclists from Kedah and Johor cycled to meet in Parliament on Thursday. These young people decided to cycle for a cause and worked with MPs and ADUNs to make their cause known. During these last two weeks they have been harassed and intimidated by the Police, apparently in an attempt to stop them from reaching the Parliament grounds.

Read about how the police are harassing these kids trying to speak up and how Robbers run wild, cops arrest Jerit cyclists, cops put underage kids lockup.


For the initiated, check out http://www.jerit.org
JERIT or JARINGAN RAKYAT TERTINDAS is in existence since year 2002. It is a network of four coalition Factory Workers Coalitions (GPKK), Plantation Workers Coalition( JSML), Student and Youth Coalition( GAMP), Urban Settlers Coalition( GPBP) and NGOs. Since 2002 we have been involved in various community issues. Political parties and other NGO support our campaigns and our work. To date , 47 organisations , MPs and State Assemblymen endorse our Bicycle campaign

·         JERIT has been  an active coalition and has been quoted many times in newspapers and electronic media, has an active website and have been invited to speak in many programmes even govement  programmes, so it is suprising that the police have only now discovered JERIT
An end note: I support the parents of these kids. They have overcome fear and taught their children that they can be responsible and fight for their rights. They have taught them not to be cowards. I salute these parents.

Check out the photos below





Monday, December 15, 2008

Schools: Misdirected Priorities

The hot topics in education today surely are (a) the teaching of science and maths in English, and, (b) the status of vernacular schools.

I have written about the the vernacular schools issues briefly here where I questioned what schools are doing today versus what they are suppose to be doing. There is far too much emphasis on integration by the politicians. I feel this is totally misdirected and cannot but get the impression that these politicians are trying to get some mileage from their political parties - drawn along racial lines. We somehow have forgotten that we schools is much more then integration and surely even more than just the convenient playground for our politicians. What I feel is that children (naturally) make friends and "integrate" (though I do not feel that need to do it) while it is the policies from the highest levels that needs to be addressed. We do not see children engage in the type of fights / disagreements politicians engage in such as the one initiated by Datuk Ahmad Ismail. In short, do not blame the schools or the children.

It does not help either when the educationist becomes selfish and lay claims on their own languages. The chinese schools are fighting and even to the point of protesting that English get to stay outside the gates of the schools. In local Government schools, the fight to maintain BM is narrow-minded to say the least. I will not dwell into this as Kian Ming presented a very good article regarding these selfish attitudes here.

My concerns are more on the education policies and vision and the lack of vision and direction are setting our children, along with that, lose several generations of young Malaysians. From the perspective of the parents there are several key issues. Firstly, the overall quality and standard needs to be improved. If any parents does not find schools innovative enough (I am sure there are many), there are no choices. All schools teach basically the same things - curriculum decided and enforced by the Ministry of Education. Schools that want to do things differently will have to do it outside "official school hours "and hold the students back. Except for the medium of instructions, everything else remains the same. So when Marina spoke about Creating Polygot Kids, she talk about human rights, our children DO NOT have rights. according to her:

Article 26.3 of the Universal Declaration of Human Rights states that "Parents have a prior right to choose the kind of education that shall be given to their children." But parents will not willfully choose a bad education for their children unless they had no choice due usually to poverty. Ultimately I don't think anyone cares what language their children's schooling is in as long as it's good schooling.


The question is do we have good schooling? Is it just about teaching English? When will we have good schooling? Do our leaders and politicians have it in them to provide "good schooling"? While we debate this (including Maths and Science in English), generations of our children would have been wasted. It is time schooling is liberalized and have many systems and approaches and keep up with the times. It s time to allow schools to being our the best in our children through proper education. Politicians can go somewhere else for their playground.


Thursday, December 11, 2008

DAULAT TUANKU!

Have been very busy lately with work, kids, and kids and work! Lot's to write but I seem to fall asleep every night I place my fingers on the keyboard. Interesting thoughts about the right livelihood and innovation camp for kids coming up later.

Meanwhile, today is the Sultan of Selangor's (official) Birthday. Stand-up straight, hands by your side and look straight



Daulat Tuanku! Daulat Tuanku! Daulat Tuanku!

Tuesday, December 02, 2008

what are schools for?

Everyonce in a while we hear politician and law makers discuss and debate about schools systems. While I am unsure where their interest and intent lies, track records shows that the good of the child is usually not part of their intent. This is the latest:

Datuk Mukhriz Mahathir said:
the government should put an end to vernacular schools so that Chinese and Tamil schools can be streamlined into one "Malaysian education system".
Naturally the Chinese community slammed him as "repeating the same polemics that are a few decades old" and "politicians cannot think out of the box".

What is telling about Datuk Mulhriz's remarks is that he felt:
"there is a need to induce unity"

What is "induce unity"? Does unity need to be induced? The more I read and think about the his statement, I cannot help but to get the impression that is it another word for assimilation.
In others words, it is about the benefit for others - not at all for the children they are entrusted to take care.

What's the purpose of Education? Is to to"induce" unity or is about the growth and development of an individual? I think the point is completely missed, that's why our education systems is what it is today. And these law makers are still struggling to decide on the usage of English in maths and science while our children's future is being wasted away. Don't blame education for the lack of unity when our own elected leaders continue to divide the country with their limited and sellfish views.

The damage to our education system has already been done and generations of our children's future has gone down the drain. Better they shut up and put more action than deeds when it comes to unity and national intregration.

50 years is too long a honeymoon!

Monday, November 24, 2008

The Fourty Four

Finally some quiet time to reflect. It has been a long and busy weekend. I missed the vigil again - 2 weeks in a row and my birthday passed so fast. Just realized I passed another milestone on the 40s track.

Finally, I got to sit and enjoy a simple birthday celebration with my family. This is the most important and meaningful thing.

my cake, its better to be straight-froward


What are reflections? Too many to just write. One thing's for sure:

Life not only begins at forty, it also begins to show.


Again, why look at the dark side. A Jedi once taught:

"Do, or do not. There is no try..." Yoda, Jedi Master

There is still more to do.....


Thanks for all the greetings and wishes. May you all be well and happy!



44 and growing younger!

Tuesday, November 18, 2008

Najib Supports Homeschooling?

It is heartening to read in the Star that our Deputy Prime Minister believes that:
'There should be an intellectual renaissance to open up and liberate the minds of students, and this should start in the universities, said Datuk Seri Najib Tun Razak.

Our education system must chan­ge. Our children are just not curious enough. They must be curious about the world. They must ask questions,” the Deputy Prime Minis­­ter said.


In a separate report, the Vanakkham Malaysia reported:

Datuk Seri Najib Tun Razak has called on universities to focus more on developing the "intellectual infrastructure" and not just physical infrastructure to make them "a centre of learning of the liberated and inquisitive minds."

Saying that he did not subscribe to the idea of emphasising on physical infrastructures, the deputy prime minister said, universities should move towards an era of intellectual renaissance.

"You got to have not just a university but a quality university, where it is really a centre of learning of the liberated, open and inquisitive minds," he said.

Speaking at the opening of a one-day seminar on "Creating A Blue Ocean in Education and Training Sectors" here today, Najib also called for "a whole paradigm shift" in the country's education system, starting from primary school.

"Our education system must change, the paradigm must change," said Najib at the seminar which was jointly organised by the Malaysia Productivity Corporation (MPC) and Malaysian Association of Private Colleges and Universities (MAPCU).

"Malaysians are very good at rote learning; they learn very well and they are studious. They spend long hours learning but they are not inquisitive enough.

(emphasis the author's)

I read this as a clear support and encouragement for homeschooling and alternative education. Homeschooling is not about the physical infrastructure, it is about the emotional and intellectual infrastructure. I may also add spiritual infrastructure as well. It is about a more holistic learning environment and it definitely represents a "paradigm shift".

I hope he means what he says and make every effort tomove political will to make the change.

Perhaps, it is time to Learn Beyond Schooling!


Monday, November 17, 2008

Taking a Break

Today had been one rare Sunday. No planned activities. No classes. For the first time in many months, we were able to just spend time together as a family. Of course, one part of me wanted to go for the vigil at the Civic Center. I guess, we will take a breather after having attend the past couple of weekends. I am glad that the gathering ended without any untoward incidents.

Since last week's incident, we have been sharing our thoughts with our children,making them aware of the situation. Having seen the brutality of the police and subsequent denial of Selangor's CPO. We wondered if there is any value in the moral and civic subjects taught in school.

One thing for sure - for the sake of our children and their future.the ISA must be repealed!


Monday, November 10, 2008

Vigil in PJ, Nov 9: Shocking use of Force by PDRM

Went to the ISA Vigil which was more of a Bersih Rally. Police roadblocks were all there preventing us to assemble. Gathered at Amcorp Mall. Had a short gathering, sang Negara Ku and dispersed under the watchful eyes and "ready to strike" FRU. It was peaceful and tensed. It was not the ordinary Sunday gathering.

All hell broke loose about an hour later when the FRU charge into the crowd that regrouped outside the Civic Center, arresting about 24 people including YB Tony Pua who we met earlier outside Amcorp Mall. Not aware that RPK was there, I was at the restaurant across the Civic Center where I managed to record some scenes of how the police chased and arrested the people - who were peaceful and was just about to disburse.

I am disturbed and shocked by the use of excessive force on peaceful demonstrations. What's really upsetting was that the charged in while people were singing the NegaraKu.

A sad day for our nation.

Some photos and video enclosed. More stories at Malaysiakini, Masterwordsmith, Paradise Storm and Anilnetto. Tony Pua blogged from mobilephone here and an update on Malaysia-today. I suppose there will be more news and pictures in the morning.

I pray all those arrested are safe and be released soon.

Tony Pua and Haris

The FRU ready to strike, batons drawn. Was it necessary to use such force?


Part of the crown at Amcorp Mall

Haris speaking to the people


the group gathered again near Civic Center, RPK was there with other politicians.




Saturday, November 08, 2008

RPK is Free!

It is indeed heartening to know that after 53 days RPK is finally free and walking TALL again!
Great news and inspiration for justice.


Now we shall continue to press on - release ALL the other detainees!

Thursday, October 23, 2008

A Voice from the Future


I woke up on the morning of my 55th birthday, logged on my computer and realize that ALL my EPF saving had disappeared! I drove to the EPF Office to enquire and found that the offices were closed! Shut down! There were many people at the premises looking for answers as to what happened to the savings. No one was there. No answers!

Driving back home, I passed the once mighty twin towers of Petronas. Avenue K is empty and ran down.  The MCA building was also empty and abandoned. Few shop open the once popular Ampang Shopping complex.  Embassy street was also deserted. The mignificant twin towers was no more Petronas' Twin Towers, it was now Shell's Twin Tower. Petronas ran out of money and force sold it to Shell!  On the street of Jalan Ampang, there were homeless people wondering aimlessly through the scrap and rubbish hoping to find what little that can. The executives running around in their ties and fancy suits were no more to be seen, Is this KL, Malaysia? What has become of this once beautiful country? A country abundance of natural resources. One of elite member oil producing nation, nett exporter of petrolium?

I shook my head as I drove home. I cannot forgive the people who "borrowed" billions of ringgit from our EPF savings to "invest" in the equities market back in October 2008 when the market was most volatile. A market in the middle of a financial crisis that saw the collapse of the great Lehman Brothers, Meryill Lynch and many others. A market that saw stock markets across the world dive day after day into a seemingly bottomless pit. What wisdom, if any, our leaders had to do the exact opposite of what the world did to try to resolve the financial crisis at that time! Instead of stimulating the economy and building confidence in the banking industry, we were the only country in the world that gambled threw hard earned savings in plunging stock market - against all advice.  In bad times as then, Maybank bought BII in Indonesia for a hefty price against financial advisors. Nobody knew the details and why thewre was a need to push through the deal. Now Maybank is under receivership and our Government cannot guarantee deposits. Maybank willprobably be history in the coming days. Why did they not learn from ING just a couple of weeks before that! They could have just cut lost and lose RM400 million! I was really angry.

Now I am driving through Kuala Lumpur, a city that's lost it glory, wallowing in economic despair and recession. Gone were the days when our economy was booming befitting an oil exporting nation. 

The people who made those stupid decisions had nothing to worry, they were rich, super rich. Probably do not even understand what hunger is. Their children had silver spoons in their mouth, were sent overseas for studies early in their age. By passed the local education their parents were custodian of. The can afford the best schools in the UK, Australiaand elsewhere. I continue to worry about my future and my children's while I could have sat back and enjoyed the fruits of my labour.  

Anyway, these people are all dead now. Can't even remember their names.  We only remember them for their greed, arrogrance and above all for their stupidity in squandering the nation's wealth.

I now have to continue working hard to support my children. I would like to think all is not lost, there is hope.

I sincerely HOPE so.



Sunday, October 19, 2008

Songs, Balloons, Candles & Rain

I was at the Jalan Utara Padang again this evening. This time there were music, singing and balloons! Balloons with "NO TO ISA" were released symbolizing freedom! Yes, there was also the rain -which did not deter the people.

This time the crowd was definitely bigger. I estimate it to be about 400-500 people.

Found a video and collection of photos and links here. You get cool "Bebaskan RPK" ringstones too

Show your support, click here for the Memorandum Demanding the Abolition of the Internal Security Act 1960. Please get your organization to endorse and sign.

SEE YOU NEXT WEEK at the front of AmCorp Mall!

No to ISA!




Sunday, October 12, 2008

Candlelight Vigil @ PJ, Oct 12 2008

Joined as estimated 300 people at the candlelight vigil in front of the Amcorp Mall in PJ (Jalan Utara Padang) tonight. Met some friends there and we all agreed that we are doing this our future, the future of our children!

ABOLISH THE ISA! Release all ALL detainees or charge them!


part of the estimated 300 people

the message is clear 'NO 2 ISA"


YB Lim Kit Siang was there too


kids & family all joined in

More pictures and detailed report at The People's Parliament


Tuesday, October 07, 2008

National Service or National Slaughter


A comprehensive summary on why we should NOT send our children to NS (now "National Slaughter", courtsy of NutGraph)

Full story HERE 

A Call for Peace - A Reflection on Buddhism, Freedom and the ISA

The political events over the past months in Malaysia has create much uncertainty. Compounded by economic uncertainty arising fallout of large financial institutions, gives more reasons for concerns. Amidst all this, what is most fearful in the heart of many Malaysian is the unstable political environment. What concerns and upsets most is the manner so-called dissidents and oppositions are dealt with. In particular, the detention without trial - selected individuals accused of being threats to the peace of the nation. Their detention is known as Section 73(1) Internal Security Act (ISA) 1960. This act states that:

"Any police officer may without warrant arrest and detain pending enquiries any person in respect of whom he has reason to believe that there are grounds which would justify his detention under section 8; and that he has acted or is about to act or is likely to act in any manner prejudicial to the security of Malaysia or any part thereof or to maintenance of essential services therein or to the economic life thereof."

Further in Section 8 ISA: Power to order detention or restriction of persons.

"(i) If the Minister is satisfied that the detention of any person is necessary with a view to preventing him from acting in any manner prejudicial to the security of Malaysia or any part thereof or to the maintenance of essential services therein or the economic life thereof, he may make an order (hereinafter referred to as a detention order) directing that that person be detained for any period not exceeding two years."

As of today there are 64 known detainees were detained since 2001, not given a chance at ball to defend themselves through due legal process. (A full list is available at http://www.aliran.com/oldsite/monthly/2001/3e.htm). Some are alleged terrorists; some are accused of being spies while at one of them are a blogger. Some held for more than seven years with no freedom in sight.

I know many Buddhist friends are greatly aware of this topic of discussion. Many of my friends take these discussions to the coffee shops, or even at private corners of Buddhist temples. One thing we cannot deny is that this issue has a greater implication to our society as a whole. To most of us, it much more than we want to know and to accept. Being a Buddhist, this Act represents a direct contradiction to the teachings and principles of the Buddha Dharma.


The overcoming of dukkha and the spirit of Siddhartha's Renunciation

As a Buddhist it pains me to see this dukkha inflicted unnecessarily to individuals. It pains me to see one of these detainee did not get to see his daughter at her deathbed. With two daughters of my own, my heart cried to the story of Shahrial Sirin, detained for 7 years WITHOUT TRIAL under the ISA. The authorities delayed the decision to allow him to return to visit his daughter who was in coma at the Kajang Hospital. She died 3 1/2 hours after her father arrived. This is just one story.  I asked myself, how can we continue to recite the following every week (daily in some cases). Yet continue to go on with life as if nothing is happening?


Jatipi dukkha jarapi dukkha maranampi dukkham

Soka.parideva. dukkha domanas. supuyasapi dukkha        

(Birth is suffering, ageing is suffering, and death is suffering;

Sorrow, lamentation, pain, grief and despair are suffering;)

 

Is this the thought Prince Siddhartha experienced when he saw the Four Sights that was so powerful that led him to leave the palace?  Is it doing something about the dukkha in line with the spirit of renunciation? If this is the spirit of renunciation of Siddhartha, how can we, as followers of the Buddha's teachings, sit and be quiet and continue to focus inward into our vipassana practices oblivious to what's happening outside. Did the Buddha not speak of compassion?

There is even Pali word for it, it's "karuṇā".  Karuṇā is one of the four "divine abodes" (brahmavihara), along with lovingkindness (metta), sympathetic joy (mudita) and equanimity (upekkha). In the Pali Canon, the Buddha recommends cultivating these four virtuous mental states to both householders and the monastic. When one develops these four states, the Buddha advises radiating them in all directions, as in the following stock canonical phrase regarding karuṇā:

"He keeps pervading the first direction — as well as the second direction, the third, & the fourth — with an awareness imbued with compassion. Thus he keeps pervading above, below, & all around, everywhere & in every respect the all-encompassing cosmos with an awareness imbued with compassion: abundant, expansive, immeasurable, free from hostility, free from ill will."  Kālāmā Sutta (AN 3.65)

In the Pali commentaries Karuṇā is the desire to remove harm and suffering (ahita-dukkha-apanaya-kāmatā) from others (SN-A 128). 

We should do what we can to show compassion now. Show the detainees (and their families) the Buddhists do care.

 

Buddhism & the Overcoming of Fear

Why are we not expressing our Karuṇā? I organized a Puja and Mediation for the ISA detainees and hardly a handful of people turned up? No big temples or Buddhist organizations have organized such Puja at the point of writing this reflection. I spoke to some Buddhist friends and two answers came out the most. The first is often, "I am not affected (so do not need to bother)". I will talk more about this later.  The more common respond is "aren't you afraid that YOU might arrested under the ISA too? In other words, FEAR.

If Siddhartha feared for his life and feared the loss of his lifestyle, he would not have left the comfort of His palace. We would have NO Buddhism today! This article and magazine would not exist!  The Buddha said that fear is an obstruction to the development of calm and insight

Let me share this article. Taken from a lecture entitle The Psychology of Emotions in Buddhist Perspective by Dr. Padmasiri de Silva:

Fear is often caused by strong desires (ta.nhaaya jaayati bhaya.m) [Dhp 216] Strong desires and attachment to either persons or things cause fear because if we cling to some precious and valuable object, ................ 

………… It is the same with the attachment to one's own self: a threat to one's life, sickness, the threat of losing one's job or reputation — all these situations are conditions for the emergence of fear. It is due to the strong self-preservative drive (bhavata.nhaa) which in turn is fed by the bhavaraaga anusaya (the lurking tendency to crave for existence) that fear becomes such an agitating condition........

....Thus restlessness and worry blind one's vision of oneself, and form an obstruction to the development of tranquility and insight. [AN 5.193]

         Source: http://www.accesstoinsight.org/lib/authors/desilva-p/wheel237.html 

We cannot stick our heads in the sand believing everything is okay, hiding in the thought that our private meditation practice is more important. This mindset is call delusion. We must strive to overcome FEAR.

 

Buddha Dharma = Freedom

The Dharma that the Buddha discovered expounds several important principles beginning with freedom and the cessation of dukkha. The ultimate aim of Buddhism is to achieve absolute freedom from the cycle of life and death, this freedom is known as Nirvana or Nibbana. Achieving this means have the right conditions. 

Hence, I personally feel that it is our right to speak up, support and provide some form of solidarity to people who have been detained under this Internal Security Act (ISA). We need to strive to create the right conditions for our practice now, we cannot wait for these conditions to appear.  How can we truly practice when there is fear.  Some have argues with me that, “look we are free to practice and have our temples, why stir up problem”.   My response is simple, this called “being selfish” and against the teachings of the four brahmaviharas.

We must do something.  Making an effort is “karma”. Karma is not waiting for something to happen to us – and we decide if it is good or bad karma.

It is very clear that making effort to change is a blessing. The Buddha in the Maha-Mangala Sutta advised us that Patirupadesavaso ca  (To dwell in a suitable locality is a supreme blessing).  If any of our detainees are relatives, we will think and act differently - what if they are our relatives, brothers and sisters in this same house called Malaysia. We would do something for our relatives.  In the same Sutta, the Buddha also advised that Naatakaana~n ca sa"ngaho: Helping one's relatives is a supreme blessing.  

We do not help our relatives by taking to the streets and cause chaos, we just need to focus on our minds and send METTA to those who are detained - and to make it known that our Buddhist brothers and sisters are in support.

In the same way, we must not forget the people who signed the arrest orders including the people that executed the orders. They too need our METTA. There are no enemies according the Buddha’s teachings – just people who have not seen certain wisdoms yet. In the Maha-Mangala Sutta as well, we are reminded of Khanti: Patience and Tapo: Energetic self-restraint.  That’s the way we show, support and solidarity.

There is so much more to write about this as it is the topic right now. Suffice that as Buddhist, we are also citizens of this country that wants a country to be ruled by the rule of law and justice and there is way to do it.  This message is even more powerful in the Mahayana tradition, where a Bodhisattva vows:

        I vow to liberate all beings, without number   眾生無邊誓願度

Let’s begin by looking at our own backyard in a place called Kamunting. In this place, people are detained and held with no opportunity of justice bestowed upon them.

What we do nor indeed affects our future, our children and their children. Doing something today is Pubbe ca katapu~n~nataa: Having made merit in the past. What we do today is the past that affects our future. This is the land where we and our children (and their children will be). Doing something can make a difference!

Lastly, I leave you with this prayer:

 Evoking the presence of the great compassion, let us fill our hearts with our own compassion - towards ourselves and towards all living beings.

Let us pray that all living beings realise that they are all brothers and sisters, all nourished from the same source of life. (Buddhist Prayer on World Peace Day, 2007)

 

 May all Beings be well and happy always, may all being find RELEASE.



Wednesday, October 01, 2008

Hari Raya at PM's Open House (Updated)

Updated: Oct 3, 2008

HERE'S SOMETHING YOU CAN DO:
If you would like to support the abolishment of ISA and push for the release of RPK, Hindraf 5 and other, here are some of the stuff you can do:

1. Send emails to PM, Cabinet Ministers (at this time, over 30,00 emails have been sent): click HERE.
2. Sign petition-online: click on http://www.petitiononline.com/isa1234/petition.html
3. Raise International Awareness, click HERE


FYI, there are many version of the event in the media. If you read the MSM, you might get a different picture. One thing for sure, there was no "commotion".  It was peaceful, not threatening in anyway.  Check out blog here and here (and many more) for commentary on what the MSM had to say.

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Yes, I was there! Those who know me knows that under normal circumstances, I would NEVER go where hundreds or thousands of people gather and queue for food. We went NOT for the food but to deliver a message to the PM and that is the ISA should be abolished. All the detainees should be freed and be accorded the due process of the law if there are charges to be made. I was there because a fellow blogger is detained and having to spend his Raya in detention because we spoke up. RPK is not alone for sure! I am no activist, but I think at times we need to make a stand and this one of the times. Haris of People's Parliament wrote a great report and with lots of pictures.

pic by Haris Ibrahim of People's Parliament

More reports and pictures here, here, here , here and here.

Selamat Hari Raya to RPK and all detainees. Special wishes to all my friends too, drive carefully and safely -have a good and blessed Aidil Fitri.







Rethinking Family & Children (2): Being Socially Engaged


Interesting site, do check it out!

One of the things I have been doing very often nowadays is sharing social, political and political discussions with my children. The media gives us a lot of such opportunities. Although they are only 11 & 12 years, I feel these discussions, done without hatred or anger, are being understood and are important for a couple of reasons:

1. It is important to have a point of view (POV). It does not matter it is who is wrong or right, it is important one that we have one. Sometimes our POV may change, but its fine.

2. Speak out for what you believe in. One of the hallmarks of a mature society is to be able to live in freedom to express ourselves -without fear. I believe that the Internal Security Act (ISA) should be abolished. I believe we as parents we should make known to my kids and our stand and they understand why (at least to some extent).

It is also important to articulate that there will be many different views and perspectives to any given subject. Underlining rules of engagement such as respect and justice must be present. One of the key lessons learnt is encapsulated in this phase, "I strongly disagree with your point of view but I will fiercely defend your right to express it"

As a parent why am I doing all this?

Answer: For our children, helping them to think, be creative and appreciate their own skills and potentials. Above all, to help them grow. To do that, we must have a conducive environment.

A summary can be found in a corporate profile of a multinational corporation which states that employees to be truly creative, freedom is most important. This profile states the following "freedoms" which I just realize that I have been applying in our home. They are:

Freedom from Fear Freedom to Fail Freedom to Be

In this country, freedom is a rare commodity. We need to work hard to attain it. We need to be socially-engaged parents.



Tuesday, September 30, 2008

Cadbury recalls chocolates in Australia


NEWS JUST IN: British candy maker Cadbury recalled a brand of chocolates from stores in Australia after preliminary testing on the China-made sweets detected traces of melamine, the industrial chemical that has sickened tens of thousands of Chinese children.

Read more here


Monday, September 29, 2008

Rethinking Family & Children

While most people are concerned about the political situation, I think it is not important. Why, because countries and economies will bounce back. They usually do - some may take a longer time, or even a different route. For many of us, we all wish the route will be least violent one.   As parents with young children, we need to take steps back, reflect and plan our lives - taking our socio-, political and economic environment into perspective.

As parents it is not enough to give our children food on the table and learning to read and write. It is much more than that! It is preparing them for the future - a future we can only predict,unfortunately. To do this, we need to be able to nurture our children to think. To think different, to think out of the box. If we cannot to that we should at least strongly encourage our children to critically question as this is how the thinking process begins.

To create a thinking community, certain conditions must be present - one of them is freedom to question. This means that our children will not be imposed fear as it would prevent the flow of ideas and creativity. Another criteria is the tolerance to failure (much more than the need to be successful). 

One of the possible future prediction is that growth of what is called  the "creative economy" will drive change. The creative economy will be the "premium economy" while the current traditional production-based will be the "commodity".   Commodity because it's growth will be dependent on price, price of infrastructure, land and labour.  That's why factories production facilities are being built (and rebuilt) in countries that offer the lowest cost of operations.

Without going into an economic lecture, suffice to say that our country is not ready for the future.  We are living in the past (a failed past), freedom is lacking and the punitive actions of the laws such as the ISA, Sedition Act, etc is only helping people to be more afraid - when there is fear, there is no thinking. With no thinking, there will be no innovations and we will be stuck in the past. For this reason, I am oppose to such Acts. 

Of course, there is this thing called schools of which we have an education systems. Our schools are an extension of these factories lead be people who are far, far from innovative and forward looking. We cannot depend on schools, they were created a hundred years ago and theyhave not changed. This is another matter I have written on many times.  Okay, time to stop before this blog becoming a political blog. This post is about getting being concerned parents wanting the best for our children - in the future.  It's about connecting and reconnecting with our children,our community and society and actively seeking our children's true potential.

Where do we begin? Here are some of my thoughts.....



React, Respond or Anticipate?

Our kids are no longer babies protected under our wings. Our children are growing right in front of our eyes. Their universes are no longer within the limited radius of the crib or the baby car seat, or the walker. They are now more plugged into the a much bigger universe through the internet, television, friends and schools. In many cases our children seems to be more plugged-in than us. Their minds are being shaped as we speak. The sad things is that what's shaping their minds are not so much by parents. We parents need to compete with other more sources of influences.  

If we put together all the time we have available for our children (minus work, travelling, etc) versus their school, friends, internet, television and whatever else - parents time comes in somewhere in the bottom.  That's why some families do not have sattelite TV or internet in their homes.  The things that makes our lives better seems to be pulling use away from each other. Being parents today is not easy, more so in a complex urban environment.  Our lives are so different from the time of our parents.

So, how then do we manage of handle the situation? Do we react without thinking much, or to respond with some sensibility and patience? Or do we try to do something now and and anticipate the future? These are difficult questions, more difficult when each situation presents itself right before us.  Here is where we need to give a lot of focus and attention. Some of the work of FamilyPlace attempts to bring awareness. The awareness that being parents demands much more, we need to have a much broader perspective of things.

Simply put, we need to STOP and respond accordingly - STOP the need to keep up with the Jones, Ali's, Chong's or Samy's. Find your own lives values! We need to respond and anticipate.


Recognize the genius in our children

Many know that my family has embarked on the homeschooling for our children.  A couple of days ago someone remarked that we are "strongly encourage homeschooling". I said to this person, " Not true"!

We are strongly encouraging "diversity in learning". The one-size-fits-all schooling systems is not the way to go. Each child is different, we need to acknowledge them.

It is time to STOP judging our own children based on the criteria of others! Stop asking and comparing how many A's each child gets. Ask our children more of such questions:

"Are you happy?"

Ask ourselves:

"How our child is smart?"  (yes, this requires more work. It  is  easier to ask: how smart is our child?)


Find the time to connect and reconnect with our children. Seek for their true potential.  If Michael Phelps who was dignosed as having ADHD, can succeed, there is much hope for our children.  We need to find their strength and goodness.

Again, this effort requires hard work if you want to make the difference. When we make a difference to our lives and our children's. We are becoming a role model, a positive one. It is so much easier otherwise, not necessarily meaningful and effective.

The biggest challenge here in facing ourselves as parents. I know some parents find it really difficult even to hug their children, what more give them kisses. Some I know raise their voices and scold their children more often than talk with them. Guess what, the problem is with us parents - nothing wrong with our children. I know for a fact that these children long their parents affection, and sadly never get it. Parents over analyze this, go to therapist and healers to see what's wrong with their children but forget (or refuse) to find out if there is anything wrong with themselves. I really feel sorry for these children. 

So parents, you really need to go beyond yourselves! 


Seeing the bigger picture: Rethinking Needed!

I would really encourage all parents to look beyond to see the bigger picture. We need to rethink a lot of things and make meanful changes to our lives. We need to review and rethink about the environment our children are plugged into. At the same time reflect on how we ourselves are condition by our own parents and the environment at that time.

There is a saying in Chinese that goes "green comes from blue". This means a student can be better then his or her own teacher.  This as a reminder that there are much more to being parents than just giving the best to our children - we need to create the conditions and to allow them to excel in their own right. It is not just about passing examinations and surely not about scoring the most A's.  It is not just about making sure our kids get into universities and getting good jobs. It is looking beyond all that. 

I hope this posting will be a little catalyst in this rethinking process. I hope there will be lots of questioning and lots more dialogue among parents with the inclusion of our children.  

Some friends have asked us how do we ensure what we are doing is right. My standard answer is, "we are embracing and adapting change, our children will thus be able to better adapt to changes in the future. We are making this a way of life".

Above, all we cannot go wrong when we love our children and truly make the effort ourselves. We are not afraid to make changes as the only constants are our love for our children and change itself.

possibly more coming........



A Personal Vigil

Could not make it for the vigil on but had my own personal one! Put a candle next to Malaysia flag (yes, our flag is still flying!). 

FREE RPK! FREE ALL THE ISA DETAINEED AND ABOLISH THE ISA!





Tuesday, September 23, 2008

Parents say no to NS stint after son’s death

How heartless can these people be? I am sure this will be swept under the carpet, no investigation, (of course) no reports - after all he dies AFTER NS, so not their problems.This is despite the fact that there was complain of the food and "drinking water" being yellowish.

I sympathize with the Lim family. May they be well!

Read on and tell me what you think...

Parents say no to NS stint after son’s death