Showing posts with label parenting. Show all posts
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Monday, December 16, 2013

Shifting Mindsets - This is What Education is About

I read this article , A School With No Teachers, Where Student Teach Themselves


It is really heartening to read initiatives such as the 42. Indeed, this is what we need for our children. I know there are many, many more alternative, inward looking initiatives.

For far too long, children have been spoon fed. It is time, they do what we are all naturally brought up to do, learn to learn!

The approach of the 42 can be daunting or even scary. This can be said for many other alternative approaches. It fundamentally redefines the entire concept of school, some thing may of us have been familiar with for a long time.  Such approaches totally reinvents the role of teachers  It is as if the ground we have been walking on has been removed. It is difficult to comprehend what to do and it is common that respond with fear and quickly seek for comfort, familiar ground. Some go to the extent of trying eliminate such alternate thinking adopting them as threats.

Some will embrace the change. Takes them by the horn, as it were. In doing so, activate a change in consciousness. They see change as necessary, for the betterment of their lives and the lives of future generations. Some found courage motivated by the fact that their children have been bullied or abuse, or have special learning needs that the mainstream schools cannot provide. They have found that schools have to be examination orientated, lost its true meaning and lost its bearing on developing the whole child. Many parents sees the necessity of such actions born out of a dire need that see their children get good education where the mainstream schooling environment have failed them. 

There are those who see a slightly bigger picture that the schooling system as a political-corporation process of domination and control. Indeed schools have become a place where young impressionable minds are being dumb-down and "brainwashed". Forced to think in a particular way or to accept that a certain thinking is right. Minds becomes more closed than open. One only need to see how history is being taught (or not being taught) at all. Or how subjects like moral, civic-consciousness embedded with nationalistic ideals are being drummed into minds of kids. Corporations, on the other hand would mold children's minds to consume and buy, buy and buy! The underlining message is that happiness arises when we have things, positions, status etc.  The political-corporation control of schools is a deadly combination.

What if we are out of mainstreams schooling and make a mistake? My answer:
 "Correct it! Education Is a process . It is a process that you can be in control. If you choose to."

Education is about changing our minds and altering our consciousness. To do this, we need to overcome our own barriers of fear, complacency rough about by our own conditioning. Real learning comes from breaking our of our minds, to find ourselves, our real potentials.

What do all these?  Ultimately, it is about happiness and wanting happiness for our children. We tend to forget it as we try to pin happiness to be able to "survive" in society and complicate ourselves with schools, curriculum, examinations, jobs. career, etc.  Happiness is about finding oneself and being at peace. The more opportunity we allow our children (and ourselves), the better the opportunity for them to be happy.




CLiCers: Trying not to get schooling in the way of education

(Check out our initiative, CLiC from Learning Beyond Schooling, our own learning process with our children and the community)












Sunday, November 24, 2013

Problem of our Education System: My Take

Here's a quick take on the woes and complain about the education system and what we could do.

Rename "Ministry of Education" (MOE) to "Ministry of schools" (MOS)

I think the Ministry is doing an excellent job trying to improve the school system. Credit  needs to be given for the efforts in trying to improve the qualities of teachers, liberate and improve standardized testing, improving infrastructure of our schools, etc as described in the Education Blueprint launched earlier this year.  Whatever their intentions or motivation may be and as long as it is done with the true intent of helping children, we should support them. They should continue to do just that - improve schools, innovate it, take the best processes and technologies available and bring them into the schooling system.

Acknowledge that the education process does not happen only in schools

Having said that, we also need to recognize that the family, the community and society at large, play an equal, if not, more important role in the education process of the  child. We need to acknowledge this wholistic aspect of education. Perhaps this is why an "education" ministry finds it so challenging to compress the education process into schools. Our children can truly benefit from their communities' cultural and spiritual values. Such values are gradually being eroded in a consumeristic and increasingly profit-driven society.  Education is about the preservation and expoliation of culture and its inherent values. We must allow the family and community to decide how to best do this, even if it means parents choosing to opt out from the formal schooling system of the MOS.

The Ministry of Education (MOE) Role

The MOE needs to acknowledge the diversity of influences that contributes to the education of the whole child. Balancing and supporting all such aspects must be the function of education. Hence, there may still be a need for a Ministry of Education. Their scope needs to include all these other approaches and influences and offer assistance and support to children and families on a much wider educational landscapes beyond conventional schooling.  In my opinion too, the education  of children must move beyond standardized testings and academic achievements and progress towards a caring mindset and the holistic practice of social, environmental and economics of  sustainability. Admittedly, this is a huge task indeed!

I believe this can only be achieved if an open-minded and inclusive attitude is adopted. It requires more then just mindset change. It is an entirely new shift - a mindshift!

No one can claim to have all the answers to all the problems faced by the current schooling system but I am positively concerned about my children's future in this rapidly changing world of ours. And I have a vision.

Is change possible?

When we choose to complain without creating solutions to problems, it is called unproductive criticism. Guess what? Each day that we complain instead of doing something proactive is a day wasted. Each month that we moan and groan at its problems is a month wasted. Before you know it, our children have gone through the entire system that we are against. It is like applying handiplast strategies and quick fixes, such extra tution, extra classes and extra whatever money can buy.

I believe that change must happen from the grassroots - parents like you and I who are deeply concerned about our children's education, and their children to come.

Change is possible when we are committed, when we see the bigger picture and deal with the smaller problems. It is possible when we are not afraid to question, comment or discuss. We need a whole new thinking process and this can only be done individually as well as collaboratively.

The question I want to pose to critics is: what are YOU doing about it? Is it sufficient just to hit the "repost" or "share" button for articles from Sir Ken Robinson or titles that have catchy phrases like "reform, not just transfrom", and just wait for a response? 

The choice is in your hand. It is entirely up you!

I am thinking about getting together and discuss deeply about this, we need to act. Interested? Drop me a note! Thank you.

Saturday, August 10, 2013

Memories of Nashville - June 2012

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It has been over a year since Amrita and I visited Nashville and to LA and finally off to Berkeley and SF before heading back to home.

Many interesting things happened after that and more to come.... stay tuned.

You might want to check out Amrita's blog on her experiences and more.


Different views

Different views by Lord Taipan
Different views, a photo by Lord Taipan on Flickr.

Parents and children always have deferring perspective of things………

Allowing children the time and space to have their own views helps mold a strong individuals.

Parenting not easy.